"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What kind of music do you listen to?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MikeBrown30
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXNjgYx3SKI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4pqjUgnuz8
This is the kind of music that I listen to.
Music can help one maintain a certain unstoppable winning attitude.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I don't really care for the new mainstream stuff though. Mostly old lol
this is my favorite song at the moment
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImRPsLxe8t0
Julius_Seizeher
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPgZbRTEvr0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDUR3MhNkKY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CTkW8z0SkE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2s0-wbXC3pQ
Morricone forever!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Upside
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc2kqjLgAHE&feature=related
Liking ^ right about now. Sound quality isn't that great.
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backbreaker
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I listen to deep house, progressive, deep progressive, tech, deep tech, minimal, tribal, drum & bass, dubstep, trance, techno. And since it's rare to find a fellow electronic music aficionado, I leave you two little gems:Upside said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nAuZ1Lw0UtI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVQwLiiylHU
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MmZexg8sxyk
sorry its vevo
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i remember the first ime hearing this. I had just finished set 2 andfelt like i couldent do set three. this song put me back in the mood.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF1mDqvD6No
Upside
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MGMT is a great band. I especially like "Kids" and "Time to Pretend"Julian said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjhe...8B01BFE1&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=11
^ Great vocal trance song. It is actually a remix of Bob Marley's - Sun is Shining. It shouldn't disappoint electronic fans.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.