“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What kind of guys get laid the most where you are at?

Benjaymin

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Where I am at it is usually foreign European guys, rich Oriential guys (Asians with nice jobs who are Westernized), and just financially well off dudes in general who have the time to go out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jacked guys, it's pretty universal. Hit the gym for yourself but you will get more pvssy because of it.
 

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Guys who don't ask questions like this. That's usually who's getting laid the most.
 

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Iceberg said:
Guys who don't ask questions like this. That's usually who's getting laid the most.
this
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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London NATURAL said:
Fixed that for you
confidence alone wont get you laid, it will help get you laid more certainly. thing with confidence is that it has to be congruent with who you are, sometimes you can fake it, but women can sniff out fakes. you have to be a good actor to pull of fake confidence if you havent got the substance to back it up
 

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I'm not a "fake it to make it" chap and wholeheartedly agree with congruence.

If people spent as much time as working on faking it to making it, as themselves, they (probably) wouldn't have to fake it. It'd certainly be a better investment of time.

A little "game" or knowledge of women isn't a bad thing either. Even a millionaire god can blow a promise.
 

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I faked it so many times that after making it enough, I didnt have to fake it anymore.

Im not exactly sure who I am now but its working quite good...
 

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Good looking white guys.

If you're ugly, being "confident" does nothing for you!!! If anything is causes you to be even more repulsive to women!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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skinnyguy said:
Good looking white guys.

If you're ugly, being "confident" does nothing for you!!! If anything is causes you to be even more repulsive to women!!
women are only kopen to YOU when they find you sexually attractive... so it does not matter how great you game is or personality is it means nothing to her if she does not want to F you.. what that means is they yes you can still get luck but it will take longer and require more work than it would for a guy she calls "hot or sexy "
 

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Rich men, muscular men, famous men.

Notice I didn't say confident men. Because confidence doesn't turn you into any of these types of men above. Tell a man to be confident and he'll get a girl. Yeah right. He'll get a girl to laugh at best and be annoyed at worst.
 

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Rich men, muscular men, famous men.

Notice I didn't say confident men. Because confidence doesn't turn you into any of these types of men above. Tell a man to be confident and he'll get a girl. Yeah right. He'll get a girl to laugh at best and be annoyed at worst.
Can I put a final appeal in for "confidence", in Judge Nismos court please sir.

Confidence affects how you talk to people and carry yourself. Also your attitude towards and how you deal with situations/women.

The appeal will claim that this does make you more attractive to women. An at the very least improves what you've got. We all have to deal with our own DNA/genetics as a fixed point. A thing we can improve in ourselves (gym lifestyles aside) is what's between our ears.
 

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1. naturally good looking
2. social butterflys

where i live, people are very cliquey so there aren't too many places where you will run in to "quality" girls.

aside from the good looking guys, the guys that have the most luck are the ones who make it a point to go out and meet as many people as they can and just by being very social.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Espi said:
I'll vouch for myself on this.

Guys who are confident; work hard; go after what they want; are passionate.

A short list but those qualities keep my plate-spinning odyssey pretty full.

I'm tall, muscular.

Don;t make a lot of money.

Live in a 1 bedroom apt.

Drive a luxury vehicle (because I want to).
What do you drive and why don't you own a house? Just curious.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Notice I didn't say confident men. Because confidence doesn't turn you into any of these types of men above. Tell a man to be confident and he'll get a girl. Yeah right. He'll get a girl to laugh at best and be annoyed at worst.
The guys I know who get laid the most are the guys who are out trying to get laid the most. It's that simple. The ones that are asking out all the girls, are the ones who are getting to go out with all the girls, for the most part. Women pay mainly a passive role. They have to sit back and wait to be asked out.

Women CAN find confidence attractive, but I think the main thing confidence does for you is give you the mental strength to go after what you what, to ask the girls out, and to take the lead with these passive women and guide them where you want to go. If you don't believe you can do that, then you have some problems. Because the male is the pursuer, despite all the "girls chase" PUA ads you may see. Generally speaking, of course.
 

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The tall naturally good looking guys, guys that have a lot of friends, a huge social circle, social network, they have so many friends that its easy for them to go out a lot
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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