She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thisIceberg said:Guys who don't ask questions like this. That's usually who's getting laid the most.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Fixed that for youEspi said:Guys who are confident
confidence alone wont get you laid, it will help get you laid more certainly. thing with confidence is that it has to be congruent with who you are, sometimes you can fake it, but women can sniff out fakes. you have to be a good actor to pull of fake confidence if you havent got the substance to back it upLondon NATURAL said:Fixed that for you
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
women are only kopen to YOU when they find you sexually attractive... so it does not matter how great you game is or personality is it means nothing to her if she does not want to F you.. what that means is they yes you can still get luck but it will take longer and require more work than it would for a guy she calls "hot or sexy "skinnyguy said:Good looking white guys.
If you're ugly, being "confident" does nothing for you!!! If anything is causes you to be even more repulsive to women!!
Can I put a final appeal in for "confidence", in Judge Nismos court please sir.nismo-4 said:Rich men, muscular men, famous men.
Notice I didn't say confident men. Because confidence doesn't turn you into any of these types of men above. Tell a man to be confident and he'll get a girl. Yeah right. He'll get a girl to laugh at best and be annoyed at worst.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What do you drive and why don't you own a house? Just curious.Espi said:I'll vouch for myself on this.
Guys who are confident; work hard; go after what they want; are passionate.
A short list but those qualities keep my plate-spinning odyssey pretty full.
I'm tall, muscular.
Don;t make a lot of money.
Live in a 1 bedroom apt.
Drive a luxury vehicle (because I want to).
The guys I know who get laid the most are the guys who are out trying to get laid the most. It's that simple. The ones that are asking out all the girls, are the ones who are getting to go out with all the girls, for the most part. Women pay mainly a passive role. They have to sit back and wait to be asked out.nismo-4 said:Notice I didn't say confident men. Because confidence doesn't turn you into any of these types of men above. Tell a man to be confident and he'll get a girl. Yeah right. He'll get a girl to laugh at best and be annoyed at worst.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.