“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What kind of exercise should i do in replacement of situps?

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I read recently that situps are bad for the spine. What would be a better exercise to do for my abs?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do all the compounds and core/abs will develop. Squats, deadlifts, pullups/chins, rows, chest passes, dips, shoulder press etc.

Few isolations on top, including leg raises. No need to do shed loads though, more about bf% rather than doing shed loads of ab exercises if you want to see them.
 

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Planks, Russian Twists, Heel Taps, Windshield Wipers, Side Planks, Mountain Climbers, Alternating Superman's, standing high knees with an ab crunch down as you bring your knee up etc...

Endless amount of ab exercises you can do
 

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Ab wheel (of satanic death).
 

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I have not done sit ups since college. I do the ab wheel with a weighted vest.... and then rely on heavy compounds... zercher holds and using slam balls. If I wasn’t still playing baseball and competing in golf tournaments I really wouldn’t do anything other than heavy compounds for abs. Once I got my body fat low enough to see them I realized they look pretty good regardless of how much isolation work I do....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There are lots of exercises that you can use in place of situps like Planks, Side Planks, Mountain Climbers. You can also use mini fitness ball, these fitness balls are very helpful in exercuse.
 

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Do all the compounds and core/abs will develop. Squats, deadlifts, pullups/chins, rows, chest passes, dips, shoulder press etc
I agree with all of this except the dips. I see OP is 40. Don't do dips when you're old(er). It can lead to shoulder inflammation.
 

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I agree with all of this except the dips. I see OP is 40. Don't do dips when you're old(er). It can lead to shoulder inflammation.
yeah, dips are a funny one. can really stress some peoples shoulders. maybe down to form, build or bit of both.

I'm 41 and have been doing weighted dips for 20 years without issues.
 

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for abs; hard sprints and crunches (not sit-ups, crunches are a little different).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I read recently that situps are bad for the spine. What would be a better exercise to do for my abs?
A lot of pussies these days. Unless they got results don't listen. Nodd and wave but ignore. Do hanging knee raises. I do rings. I also do IF. MY ABS pop now and it's from clean diet and living. Rings I engage my core so it's been profound from a aesthetic perspective.
 

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Most body builders poise that you really don't need to concentrate on your abs at all, most of them don't.

With this being said, unquestionably for functionality there is no more important muscle than the stomach, it's aiding every movement you perform.

So you kinda want to decide what your goals are, if you wanna look good, but you don't plan on having a flat stomach or whatever, maybe you just skip abs entirely, maybe not, on you.
 
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