"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, here goes:

A few nights ago I went to a baseball game with all my coworkers. It's alot of fun, nobody really pays attention to the game, it's really just a good time to hang out and talk and stuff like that. Anyway, most of my coworkers are college students, and the girl who gave me a ride to the game was sitting next to me the whole time. I've known her for a long time, about 3 years, and never really considered her an option because of the age difference. I'm 17, she's 23. So we're talking and all that, and she tells me that her and a bunch of my coworkers are going to the local bar and asked if I wanted to go because they don't card on weekdays. I had to tell her no because I had to go home to my parents and my curfew is 11pm. Well, a few minutes later, just out of the blue she leans over to talk to me and tells me that if I ever wanted to come over to her appartment to drink with her, stay the night, and just hang out that it would be totally cool. I said sure, and we traded #'s. Anyways, I haven't talked to her about it since then, and was wondering if anyone thought it might be innuendo. Kinda like a "Why don't you come in for some coffee" thing.
Just lookin' for opinions on whether it might lead to more than just drinking. I am gonna take her up on her offer just to see where it leads. In anycase I get the chance to get wasted, so it's all good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Porky

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MIGHT be innuendo?

If I said that to most of my female friends, that would simultaneously ruin the friendship and my reputation. Go for it, and go for it hard.
 

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Green light means GO!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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