JBalfour4
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What is your definition of "Love"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What is your definition of "Love"
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Microphone Fiend
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Mack Bishop
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two people feeling sorry for each other
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
JBalfour4
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Wow! thanks for ****in the post up!
seize_the_pattern
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welcome to sosuave 
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
m4a1
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Sosuave.com (Allen) said:
So this is what we're going to do from now on:
Any member who flames a moderator, baits a moderator, or deliberately attempts to annoy a moderator will be banned or suspended immediately. All members are to treat the moderators with the utmost respect.
You're baiting the moderators.
YOU SHOULD BE BANNED
j/k you can stay.
seize_the_pattern
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Read carefully
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
LuvMyArmyMan
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Love is just wanting to be with someone without an explanation.
MindOverMatter
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It's when you're in a situation where it's in your best interest to leave someone you're with, but you decide to stay with them.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
Love is when just being around the girl satisfies you.
Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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LuvMyArmyMan
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yes aequites! you pretty much summed it up quite nicely
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
diplomatic_lie
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Love is when you tip a hooker $100 instead of $25;.
seize_the_pattern
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No one said talkin out of the anus is a good idea either to make this forum work best