JBalfour4
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What is your definition of "Love"
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What is your definition of "Love"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Microphone Fiend
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Mack Bishop
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two people feeling sorry for each other
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
JBalfour4
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Wow! thanks for ****in the post up!
seize_the_pattern
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welcome to sosuave 
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
m4a1
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Sosuave.com (Allen) said:
So this is what we're going to do from now on:
Any member who flames a moderator, baits a moderator, or deliberately attempts to annoy a moderator will be banned or suspended immediately. All members are to treat the moderators with the utmost respect.
You're baiting the moderators.
YOU SHOULD BE BANNED
j/k you can stay.
seize_the_pattern
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Read carefully
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LuvMyArmyMan
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Love is just wanting to be with someone without an explanation.
MindOverMatter
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It's when you're in a situation where it's in your best interest to leave someone you're with, but you decide to stay with them.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
Love is when just being around the girl satisfies you.
Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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LuvMyArmyMan
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yes aequites! you pretty much summed it up quite nicely
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Love is when you tip a hooker $100 instead of $25;.
seize_the_pattern
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No one said talkin out of the anus is a good idea either to make this forum work best