JBalfour4
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What is your definition of "Love"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What is your definition of "Love"
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Microphone Fiend
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Mack Bishop
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two people feeling sorry for each other
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
JBalfour4
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Wow! thanks for ****in the post up!
seize_the_pattern
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welcome to sosuave 
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
m4a1
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Sosuave.com (Allen) said:
So this is what we're going to do from now on:
Any member who flames a moderator, baits a moderator, or deliberately attempts to annoy a moderator will be banned or suspended immediately. All members are to treat the moderators with the utmost respect.
You're baiting the moderators.
YOU SHOULD BE BANNED
j/k you can stay.
seize_the_pattern
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Read carefully
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LuvMyArmyMan
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Love is just wanting to be with someone without an explanation.
MindOverMatter
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It's when you're in a situation where it's in your best interest to leave someone you're with, but you decide to stay with them.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
Love is when just being around the girl satisfies you.
Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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LuvMyArmyMan
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yes aequites! you pretty much summed it up quite nicely
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
diplomatic_lie
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Love is when you tip a hooker $100 instead of $25;.
seize_the_pattern
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No one said talkin out of the anus is a good idea either to make this forum work best