JBalfour4
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What is your definition of "Love"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What is your definition of "Love"
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Microphone Fiend
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Mack Bishop
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two people feeling sorry for each other
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
JBalfour4
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Wow! thanks for ****in the post up!
seize_the_pattern
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welcome to sosuave 
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
there are even moderators who are good at this (yes yes moderators the Torture Never Stops muhahahahaha)
m4a1
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Sosuave.com (Allen) said:
So this is what we're going to do from now on:
Any member who flames a moderator, baits a moderator, or deliberately attempts to annoy a moderator will be banned or suspended immediately. All members are to treat the moderators with the utmost respect.
You're baiting the moderators.
YOU SHOULD BE BANNED
j/k you can stay.
seize_the_pattern
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Read carefully
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
I didnt say THE moderators who are good at this
No further judging just saying what Ive seen so far.
and yes to for most respectable moderators this whole moderators-being-a-pain-in-the-ass-discussion is a pain in the ass.
but it deserves leverage
allright ... love... the first tapes of brian tracy's the psychology of achievement explain it pretty well by the example of the child-grief-death-syndrome where 2 groups of newborn children where seperated into those who got diapers changed, fed, sung to, held, talked to and given attention and those who just got fed and had their diapers changed and that was it. The experiment had to be stopped and it was stopped too late because 90% of those children of the second group had already died out of grief.
So i guess love repressents any form of positive interaction and connection with yourself and other people necessary to grow a healthy personality. Children in their formative years who do not get enough love from their parents grow love deficianties (is that how you spell it/?)
After the formative years one is supposed to fullfill him/herself with the feelings of love and draw relationships from it and have it working for their personality
Cheers,
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LuvMyArmyMan
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Love is just wanting to be with someone without an explanation.
MindOverMatter
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It's when you're in a situation where it's in your best interest to leave someone you're with, but you decide to stay with them.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
For example, Sheryl Crow wants to have kids, and her boyfriend has prostate cancer and cant father any children, yet she's marrying him and is gonna spend the rest of her days with him anyway.
That's what real love is, at least in my opinion. Anything else is just infatuation or losing your balls.
Love is when just being around the girl satisfies you.
Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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Love is when u would do anything for the other person.
Love is when u would DIE for the other person
Love is when u feel like crying when u dont see that person for a long time and u miss them so god damn much!
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LuvMyArmyMan
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yes aequites! you pretty much summed it up quite nicely
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
diplomatic_lie
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Love is when you tip a hooker $100 instead of $25;.
seize_the_pattern
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No one said talkin out of the anus is a good idea either to make this forum work best