"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What is the stuff you wish you knew in your 20s that you know now?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Don't get crushes on girls who don't have a healthy reciprocal interest level back to you because you will be wasting your time. Focus on her interest-level not on yours.
1. Don't chase women, chase excellence
2. Make yourself your own mental point of origin. People are fickle, especially women. They love you one day and hate you the next. Don't worry about what they think, do your own thing.
3. Don't try to make others happy, especially women. Be a decent person, focus on what you want and chase your dreams.
4. When women say I love you, add right now to the end of it.
5. When women don't want to do something you want, add to the end of it with you. So if you say, I'd really like a double ******* and she doesn't want to do it, add to the end of that refusal, with you.
The trick is, be on your game. Work out, work your career. If you're chasing your dreams, if you're succeeding, I guarantee you, you will have no problem with your pick of women. Women gravitate towards success.
Mike32ct
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In 10 or 20 years you will be kicking yourself because you turned down that 21 yo because she was ONLY an HB 6.99 lol
Who Dares Win
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Getting hot girls depends 90% on being high value yourself before and only 10% on the action in the moment.
While dealing with women always observe their behaviours and not their words.
Always listen to your gut, if you are annoyed, stressed or p1ssed off it because your gut sense something that your brain tries to hyde, keep in mind an interested girl WOULD NEVER DO anything that could risk to confuse or push away a man she wants.
Obstacle exists only when the interest is low.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
In2theGame
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Don't dig yourself into a full blown serious relationship in your 20's or atleast try not to lock yourself up so quick with one girl. Use protection at all costs, If you get one of these chicks preg in your 20's, you will deeply regret it although i'm sure it's a special thing to have a kid, I'm just saying wait till your 30's (maybe even 40's) to give yourself a chance to build your net worth and financial situation.
Hit the gym and get in the best shape possible. Your body right now is primed to build muscle and recovers easier. Use that to your advantage and don't eat a lot of bullsh!t, Keep yourself looking lean and healthy so that you go into your 30's just as good and will still be able to have sex with Women 18 - 25.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
While at 29 I am a full time college student now and better late than never I wish I would have went to school instead of goofing off in my early 20s.
Also, my credit isn’t good. I wish I would have done more to maintain a decent credit score.
Yes make small stock investments now, anything will do..
If you live at home save 25% of your income
Save gold, not failing money. small amount is better than nothing. you can buy 1 g at a time if needed. Over time money goes down, gold goes up
Cheer up, fvck up, don't worry too much. Learn from mistakes
If you get a unicorn try and take good care of her..
Don't wait too long to settle down, the leftovers is mostly damaged goods, later on in life.. that my opinion
mrgoodstuff
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I have a company that can clear most collections. Pm me
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I've talked to you on and off on here and want to know, in your opinion, should a man's mission be something he knows will make him happy? Or something he forces himself to pretend to like? I'm having a hard time figuring you out
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It's just a modern platitude. Don't read too much into it.
Mike32ct
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If you like working with your hands, HVAC/refrigeration is very good. The basics can be learned in a few years working for a company. Maybe a year to 18 mo of part time trade school too.
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In2theGame
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- Money - Or should I say financial freedom/independence. The financial means to do whatever you want, when you want, with who you want and how you want. Purchase your hearts desire without thinking about not having enough in the bank. This is why I always encourage younger Men to learn how to create a business and become a good investor or even a trader. The more you learn how to make money outside of the traditional route of employment, the more you gain extremely valuable skills that you would never learn otherwise. Don't put a cap on how much money you can earn, go for the mid to high six figures or even seven figures.
- Multiple Women - If every Man had a choice, he would love to live like a king and have a buffet of different Women for him. Blonde, Brunette, Redhead, Petite, Thick, small tits, large tits, nice round ass, etc etc. No matter what any Man says, he wants different flavors or "mixed" flavors if you know what I mean (threesomes). Sure you want your main squeeze but the c0ck knows no boundaries when it comes to pure sexual desire.
- Youth - Men want to stay young, strong and healthy for as long as possible. Raging libido with rock hard erections and a rock hard physique to complement it. It makes you feel like a Man with testosterone roaming throughout the body. This is also what gives the "LETS GO GET SH*T DONE!" mentality. Men want this feeling all the time and it sucks when it starts to dwindle with age but this is why its important to keep yourself as healthy as possible in your youth.
Overall, Even if many don't like him, Dan Bilzerian IS living this life. Although it does have it's negative sides, I'd argue that he's pretty happy lol.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.