"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is the Philosophy of the DJ?

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I am really interested in the philosophy of being a DJ, So I want to know...



What are the highest ethics that a DJ strives for?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sexy_kuta said:
to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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Perfect definition :up:
 
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Phyzzle said:
The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
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LMAO! Thats pretty funny.
But I'm hoping its sarcasm.

I'd like to think theres a more formulated direction of thought and substance to the goal of DonJuan'ism here. I know I personally have an incredibly rich perspective into the core value of what the philosophy here is about.

But... lately, I couldn't blame anyone for seeing it so crass.

Anyways, to the original poster... as been suggested a million and one times over to the fresh noobs................... GO READ THE DJB!
 
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To be perfectly honest when I became better with women, anti-feminism went along. It can't help but have an impact when you read threads about how one should think of women like little girls to show them a good time. (If used properly this works on many girls.) The problem lies in the fact that so many guys now a'days have been negatively impacted by the womens movement. For example, holding back on what you say even jokingly as to not offend a women. Many guys have weak game because thats how theyre feminist era mothers taught them to be. Then they start looking around here trying stuff out and seeing that the bf's women think they want are entirely different than the ones that make their panties wet..... That being said.. in transformation from afc to dj a man will typically go through this stage of anti-feminism(to help get chicks) before wising up to the world(maturing) and realizing that one can respect chicks and get them.

The answer to your question has a thread to it that is a perfect description.....also see Pook's "be a man"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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