"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is the Philosophy of the DJ?

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I am really interested in the philosophy of being a DJ, So I want to know...



What are the highest ethics that a DJ strives for?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sexy_kuta said:
to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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Perfect definition :up:
 

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Phyzzle said:
The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
LMAO! Thats pretty funny.
But I'm hoping its sarcasm.

I'd like to think theres a more formulated direction of thought and substance to the goal of DonJuan'ism here. I know I personally have an incredibly rich perspective into the core value of what the philosophy here is about.

But... lately, I couldn't blame anyone for seeing it so crass.

Anyways, to the original poster... as been suggested a million and one times over to the fresh noobs................... GO READ THE DJB!
 

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To be perfectly honest when I became better with women, anti-feminism went along. It can't help but have an impact when you read threads about how one should think of women like little girls to show them a good time. (If used properly this works on many girls.) The problem lies in the fact that so many guys now a'days have been negatively impacted by the womens movement. For example, holding back on what you say even jokingly as to not offend a women. Many guys have weak game because thats how theyre feminist era mothers taught them to be. Then they start looking around here trying stuff out and seeing that the bf's women think they want are entirely different than the ones that make their panties wet..... That being said.. in transformation from afc to dj a man will typically go through this stage of anti-feminism(to help get chicks) before wising up to the world(maturing) and realizing that one can respect chicks and get them.

The answer to your question has a thread to it that is a perfect description.....also see Pook's "be a man"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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