"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is the Philosophy of the DJ?

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I am really interested in the philosophy of being a DJ, So I want to know...



What are the highest ethics that a DJ strives for?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sexy_kuta said:
to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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Perfect definition :up:
 

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Phyzzle said:
The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
LMAO! Thats pretty funny.
But I'm hoping its sarcasm.

I'd like to think theres a more formulated direction of thought and substance to the goal of DonJuan'ism here. I know I personally have an incredibly rich perspective into the core value of what the philosophy here is about.

But... lately, I couldn't blame anyone for seeing it so crass.

Anyways, to the original poster... as been suggested a million and one times over to the fresh noobs................... GO READ THE DJB!
 

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To be perfectly honest when I became better with women, anti-feminism went along. It can't help but have an impact when you read threads about how one should think of women like little girls to show them a good time. (If used properly this works on many girls.) The problem lies in the fact that so many guys now a'days have been negatively impacted by the womens movement. For example, holding back on what you say even jokingly as to not offend a women. Many guys have weak game because thats how theyre feminist era mothers taught them to be. Then they start looking around here trying stuff out and seeing that the bf's women think they want are entirely different than the ones that make their panties wet..... That being said.. in transformation from afc to dj a man will typically go through this stage of anti-feminism(to help get chicks) before wising up to the world(maturing) and realizing that one can respect chicks and get them.

The answer to your question has a thread to it that is a perfect description.....also see Pook's "be a man"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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