"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is the Philosophy of the DJ?

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I am really interested in the philosophy of being a DJ, So I want to know...



What are the highest ethics that a DJ strives for?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sexy_kuta said:
to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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Perfect definition :up:
 

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Phyzzle said:
The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
LMAO! Thats pretty funny.
But I'm hoping its sarcasm.

I'd like to think theres a more formulated direction of thought and substance to the goal of DonJuan'ism here. I know I personally have an incredibly rich perspective into the core value of what the philosophy here is about.

But... lately, I couldn't blame anyone for seeing it so crass.

Anyways, to the original poster... as been suggested a million and one times over to the fresh noobs................... GO READ THE DJB!
 

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To be perfectly honest when I became better with women, anti-feminism went along. It can't help but have an impact when you read threads about how one should think of women like little girls to show them a good time. (If used properly this works on many girls.) The problem lies in the fact that so many guys now a'days have been negatively impacted by the womens movement. For example, holding back on what you say even jokingly as to not offend a women. Many guys have weak game because thats how theyre feminist era mothers taught them to be. Then they start looking around here trying stuff out and seeing that the bf's women think they want are entirely different than the ones that make their panties wet..... That being said.. in transformation from afc to dj a man will typically go through this stage of anti-feminism(to help get chicks) before wising up to the world(maturing) and realizing that one can respect chicks and get them.

The answer to your question has a thread to it that is a perfect description.....also see Pook's "be a man"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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