"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is the Philosophy of the DJ?

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I am really interested in the philosophy of being a DJ, So I want to know...



What are the highest ethics that a DJ strives for?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexy_kuta said:
to self resepect, respect others

to suceed in life and achieve Goals to accomplish obstacles in all kind of situations, without ****ty shortcuts or beating around the bush, to learn to adapt your own personal self to become a better someone,
to live a for filling, loving life.
to learn and experience new things,

Learn to self motivate our own self and to become a better person
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Perfect definition :up:
 

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Phyzzle said:
The closest thing the guys here have as a philsophy is "Anti-feminism, without Bible-thumping."
LMAO! Thats pretty funny.
But I'm hoping its sarcasm.

I'd like to think theres a more formulated direction of thought and substance to the goal of DonJuan'ism here. I know I personally have an incredibly rich perspective into the core value of what the philosophy here is about.

But... lately, I couldn't blame anyone for seeing it so crass.

Anyways, to the original poster... as been suggested a million and one times over to the fresh noobs................... GO READ THE DJB!
 

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To be perfectly honest when I became better with women, anti-feminism went along. It can't help but have an impact when you read threads about how one should think of women like little girls to show them a good time. (If used properly this works on many girls.) The problem lies in the fact that so many guys now a'days have been negatively impacted by the womens movement. For example, holding back on what you say even jokingly as to not offend a women. Many guys have weak game because thats how theyre feminist era mothers taught them to be. Then they start looking around here trying stuff out and seeing that the bf's women think they want are entirely different than the ones that make their panties wet..... That being said.. in transformation from afc to dj a man will typically go through this stage of anti-feminism(to help get chicks) before wising up to the world(maturing) and realizing that one can respect chicks and get them.

The answer to your question has a thread to it that is a perfect description.....also see Pook's "be a man"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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