Hugh G. Rection
Don Juan
an 18 year old 6'2" male?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What is the ideal weight for...
- Thread starter Hugh G. Rection
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hugh G. Rection
Don Juan
How do I find out my body fat percentage?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Start out here to calculate your Body Mass Index (BMI). It doesn't calculate body fat but lets face it, who can't look in a mirror and tell that they have too much fat on themself?
http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm
http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm
Hugh G. Rection
Don Juan
I am not fat.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hugh ....
Your similar to me: 6'1'' male. I also want to know this, since I weigh at any given time between 125-130lbs. I know, unbelivable right? Nope. Ive weighed myself on 3 different digital scales and one non digital and it all comes up the same..
Worst part is, when I ask my doctor for help, she says I should'nt worry about it and I'll be thankful when im older! pfft! She says my metabolism must be really active, but doesn't think its necessary to do blood work to find if maybe I have an "overactive thyroid" which means an unusually high metabolism basically.
Notice that! Its a chick saying this, she doesnt know how it feels... I eat so much, including alot of fast food, but can't seem to gain weight. I desperatly want to gain weight as I look like a "tooth pick"
I guess I will go back to the docs and insist on some blood work and maybe a weight gain regimin such as WHEY and hopefully come up with the time and a workout partner to start working out...by the way, what would the results be like if I were to take WHEY without working out?
Your similar to me: 6'1'' male. I also want to know this, since I weigh at any given time between 125-130lbs. I know, unbelivable right? Nope. Ive weighed myself on 3 different digital scales and one non digital and it all comes up the same..
Worst part is, when I ask my doctor for help, she says I should'nt worry about it and I'll be thankful when im older! pfft! She says my metabolism must be really active, but doesn't think its necessary to do blood work to find if maybe I have an "overactive thyroid" which means an unusually high metabolism basically.
Notice that! Its a chick saying this, she doesnt know how it feels... I eat so much, including alot of fast food, but can't seem to gain weight. I desperatly want to gain weight as I look like a "tooth pick"
I guess I will go back to the docs and insist on some blood work and maybe a weight gain regimin such as WHEY and hopefully come up with the time and a workout partner to start working out...by the way, what would the results be like if I were to take WHEY without working out?Jimbo2k you can check out Diesels guide to bulking on this forum, its pretty good. I know what a pain in the ass it is if you are skinny and don't know what to do to gain weight, 90% of the people will tell you don't worry about it or youll be glad when you are older. And most women think that weight is the only thing that matters althought its possible to be skinny and fat at the same time. If you haven't worked out before, one of the best parts of it is that it naturally increases your appetite. I know, I went from 117 to 145 in about 10 months.
DarkfalconIV
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BMI sucks and isn't accurate. FOr a good reading. Go look something up on the web. I use this thing in the Zone book. You take your wasit measure subracted from your wrist then you ollk it up on a chart. BMI just to inaccurate. Theres plenty of better ones.
Hugh G. Rection
Don Juan
Jimbo,
I think we're about the same. I weigh 61 or 62 kg (136 lbs?) myself, but I have clothes that make me look a little bigger. Well, when I look in the mirror while wearing those clothes, my shoulders look more broad. I eat like a freaking PIG, and I don't gain anything. But I don't lose anything either. It's incredibly weird.
I am not a total tooth pick though, my muscles are visible, but they are quite small.
I think we're about the same. I weigh 61 or 62 kg (136 lbs?) myself, but I have clothes that make me look a little bigger. Well, when I look in the mirror while wearing those clothes, my shoulders look more broad. I eat like a freaking PIG, and I don't gain anything. But I don't lose anything either. It's incredibly weird.
I am not a total tooth pick though, my muscles are visible, but they are quite small.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Wow...
I'm about the same height and 195 lbs and I look pretty skinny.
Hugh G. Rection
Don Juan
I don't really know. They're just normal clothes. I have a long-sleeved sweater and when I pull the sleeves about halfway up, I look much more bigger. That was only one example, I have more clothes like that, but the point is that you should wear them in a way that your shoulders look broader, and your stomach tighter. It probably has to do with optical illusions and such. It's hard to explain, you should try it out.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
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BMI = moronic. My BMI (29.7) is around TWICE as much as my actual bodyfat percentage.