Heretolearn
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 25, 2005
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best relationship you have heard of?
best love story?
Worst?
Biggest heartbreak?
best love story?
Worst?
Biggest heartbreak?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LOL - No, I have just never seen real love. Everyone talks about it but I have never really seen two people whom I thought were magically in love.Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Sweet Moses man!
Did you just watch, Sleepless in Seattle or something? Your last few threads sound like you had a sex change this weekend. Where did all of this chick-think come from?
I think its some part of Arab culture. Arabs tend to take family values more seriously than Americans, so they're going to be more fanatic about protecting their family and crap.Originally posted by Swoop
This isn't the best love story but it is definitely the stupidest one I have heard on the news. It was about an Iraq soldier who got injured. The doctor told him that they will need to cut his wedding ring off to save his finger. Instead he insist that the doctor cut off his finger to save his wedding ring. Is that not some twisted love?
:crackup:Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Sweet Moses man!
Did you just watch, Sleepless in Seattle or something? Your last few threads sound like you had a sex change this weekend. Where did all of this chick-think come from?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.