Heretolearn
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best relationship you have heard of?
best love story?
Worst?
Biggest heartbreak?
best love story?
Worst?
Biggest heartbreak?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what is the best REAL love story you have ever heard of?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Rollo Tomassi
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Sweet Moses man!
Did you just watch, Sleepless in Seattle or something? Your last few threads sound like you had a sex change this weekend. Where did all of this chick-think come from?
Did you just watch, Sleepless in Seattle or something? Your last few threads sound like you had a sex change this weekend. Where did all of this chick-think come from?
KontrollerX
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The late atheist Alan Glenn and his girlfriend or wife Jessica (not sure if they got married or not) before he passed.
What I read is they were like soulmates and her simply being in his life helped him keep fighting his lung condition and stay alive longer.
So sad they couldn't find a donor to save his life.
http://www.infidelguy.com/ftopict-14349-Allan_Glenn_has_died.html
What I read is they were like soulmates and her simply being in his life helped him keep fighting his lung condition and stay alive longer.
So sad they couldn't find a donor to save his life.
http://www.infidelguy.com/ftopict-14349-Allan_Glenn_has_died.html
Somebody did a TV show about great loves and what happened to them. I just remember the story about this guy who swam with scuba gear to rescue his Asian girlfriend from Cambodia. So after he risked his life (armed guards were there at the river to stop any escape) they interview them.
He is living in a trailer somewhere and has some sort of dismal life,she is living somewhere else and gives some explanation about how things didn't work out for them. He was feted in the press at the time as some kind of romantic hero, but I wonder if he would have risked being plugged by the border guards if he knew how it would turn out.
Perhaps the story more accurately should have portrayed him as a guy so stupid he was prepared to risk getting shot for sex.
He is living in a trailer somewhere and has some sort of dismal life,she is living somewhere else and gives some explanation about how things didn't work out for them. He was feted in the press at the time as some kind of romantic hero, but I wonder if he would have risked being plugged by the border guards if he knew how it would turn out.
Perhaps the story more accurately should have portrayed him as a guy so stupid he was prepared to risk getting shot for sex.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Heretolearn
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LOL - No, I have just never seen real love. Everyone talks about it but I have never really seen two people whom I thought were magically in love.
I wonder why we are so driven to the unreachable/unknown/unquantifiable
This isn't the best love story but it is definitely the stupidest one I have heard on the news. It was about an Iraq soldier who got injured. The doctor told him that they will need to cut his wedding ring off to save his finger. Instead he insist that the doctor cut off his finger to save his wedding ring. Is that not some twisted love?
And the press interview his wife, she thought it was kinda dumb but she was touched. And the funny part was, after the doctor cut off his finger, they lost the wedding ring. Hahaha
And the press interview his wife, she thought it was kinda dumb but she was touched. And the funny part was, after the doctor cut off his finger, they lost the wedding ring. Hahaha
diplomatic_lies
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I think its some part of Arab culture. Arabs tend to take family values more seriously than Americans, so they're going to be more fanatic about protecting their family and crap.
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I'm pretty sure it was an American guy. Completely stupid. I think they should fire any surgeon who cut off a perfectly good finger to save a friggin' ring. That violates the Hippocratic Oath, as well as common sense.
Centaurion
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I was wondering the same.
I experienced true 'love' this weekend. I brought home a fluisy from the bar on saturday. We got down to the dirty act, and she was giving me this totally awesome head. I was to blow when I asked her if it was ok for me to blow in her mouth, she looked up at me with my d!ck still in her mouth and said "of course, I don't want it to go to waste". I swear to fvcking Satan, what I felt there and then was pure love.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.