Heretolearn
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 25, 2005
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best relationship you have heard of?
best love story?
Worst?
Biggest heartbreak?
best love story?
Worst?
Biggest heartbreak?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL - No, I have just never seen real love. Everyone talks about it but I have never really seen two people whom I thought were magically in love.Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Sweet Moses man!
Did you just watch, Sleepless in Seattle or something? Your last few threads sound like you had a sex change this weekend. Where did all of this chick-think come from?
I think its some part of Arab culture. Arabs tend to take family values more seriously than Americans, so they're going to be more fanatic about protecting their family and crap.Originally posted by Swoop
This isn't the best love story but it is definitely the stupidest one I have heard on the news. It was about an Iraq soldier who got injured. The doctor told him that they will need to cut his wedding ring off to save his finger. Instead he insist that the doctor cut off his finger to save his wedding ring. Is that not some twisted love?
:crackup:Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Sweet Moses man!
Did you just watch, Sleepless in Seattle or something? Your last few threads sound like you had a sex change this weekend. Where did all of this chick-think come from?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.