"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what is everyone doing for NYE ?

Bingo-Player

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so new years eve is upon us

i had originally planned an expensive & boozy weekend away with a friend , but to be honest i feel like i have already spent and drank enough over the festive period so i cancelled it earlier this week

i find NYE to always be stressfull and disappointing in my home town and i know i have left it late to go away now ...but will feel like il be missing out if i dont go out

just wondering what everyone's plans where ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Roober

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crap...

I got my boys and my mom is in town. She made it clear that she will not watch them so I can go out. Even with the "but they are already asleep..."

So it is a movie night with a bottle of champagne, and cider for moms
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Planning on pub with a few mates. Hopefully there will be a few cheekies to chat up.

Nothing too crazy. I like to feel fresh and go out on New Years Day. It's usually quite peaceful and a good time for a bit of reflection.
 

Reykhel

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No party, No fireworks...

Attending a buddhist retreat for the weekend. Meditation and buddhism with the theme being "purification "

Enter 2017 in a positive manner.
 

C00lAF

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Fancy dinner,candles,wine,massage.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil

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I'm taking my date out tonight (30th) and we will celebrate New Years at midnight. Tomorrow night she can go party as she just turned 21 and I'm done with that scene, so I didn't even ask for that night. I'll take it easy at the corner pub.

I traditionally like going out on the 30th instead of NYE because it's a quiet night and staff isn't depressed having to work.
 

Who Dares Win

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Will watch a movie and play videogames probably, not worth the hassle to feel like an ant in the overcrowded city where magically everything to eat or drink costs twice the normal cost.

As doublegreatest said holydays mean **** beside closed stores, interrupted services and the fvcking gym closed the necessary days to screw up my program.

The older I get the less tolerant I become when society or culture forces me to feel or do something.

CANT WAIT till all the **** is over and proceed according to my plans.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wifehunter

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Working! (Uber)
 

SmooveMooves

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Reflection. Might go downtown to watch the ball drop. Might drink a lil. Otherwise, I'm already planning how I can improve more this uocoming year.
 

TheGambino

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Going out downtown for a big party with my mate. Booze, dancing, chatting up the ladies and ignoring my plate who turned me down.
 

Young OG

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I'm going to a party with a plate at a big hotel in town. It's supposed to be 3 different rooms with a party in each one. Then the plate is sleeping over.

I kind of wish I wouldn't have agreed to this now, cause a new girl I met wants to spend new years with me and I'm pretty sure she's dtf. Oh well...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Making reservations for this right now. Deciding on a place me and my "boo" are going to go lol
 

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We arranged things too late and everywhere in my town is booked however, we managed to get tickets to NYE in a Casino which will be interesting.
 
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