"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what is everyone doing for NYE ?

Bingo-Player

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so new years eve is upon us

i had originally planned an expensive & boozy weekend away with a friend , but to be honest i feel like i have already spent and drank enough over the festive period so i cancelled it earlier this week

i find NYE to always be stressfull and disappointing in my home town and i know i have left it late to go away now ...but will feel like il be missing out if i dont go out

just wondering what everyone's plans where ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Roober

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crap...

I got my boys and my mom is in town. She made it clear that she will not watch them so I can go out. Even with the "but they are already asleep..."

So it is a movie night with a bottle of champagne, and cider for moms
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Planning on pub with a few mates. Hopefully there will be a few cheekies to chat up.

Nothing too crazy. I like to feel fresh and go out on New Years Day. It's usually quite peaceful and a good time for a bit of reflection.
 

Reykhel

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No party, No fireworks...

Attending a buddhist retreat for the weekend. Meditation and buddhism with the theme being "purification "

Enter 2017 in a positive manner.
 

C00lAF

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Fancy dinner,candles,wine,massage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigneil

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I'm taking my date out tonight (30th) and we will celebrate New Years at midnight. Tomorrow night she can go party as she just turned 21 and I'm done with that scene, so I didn't even ask for that night. I'll take it easy at the corner pub.

I traditionally like going out on the 30th instead of NYE because it's a quiet night and staff isn't depressed having to work.
 

Who Dares Win

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Will watch a movie and play videogames probably, not worth the hassle to feel like an ant in the overcrowded city where magically everything to eat or drink costs twice the normal cost.

As doublegreatest said holydays mean **** beside closed stores, interrupted services and the fvcking gym closed the necessary days to screw up my program.

The older I get the less tolerant I become when society or culture forces me to feel or do something.

CANT WAIT till all the **** is over and proceed according to my plans.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wifehunter

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Working! (Uber)
 

SmooveMooves

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Reflection. Might go downtown to watch the ball drop. Might drink a lil. Otherwise, I'm already planning how I can improve more this uocoming year.
 

TheGambino

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Going out downtown for a big party with my mate. Booze, dancing, chatting up the ladies and ignoring my plate who turned me down.
 

Young OG

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I'm going to a party with a plate at a big hotel in town. It's supposed to be 3 different rooms with a party in each one. Then the plate is sleeping over.

I kind of wish I wouldn't have agreed to this now, cause a new girl I met wants to spend new years with me and I'm pretty sure she's dtf. Oh well...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making reservations for this right now. Deciding on a place me and my "boo" are going to go lol
 

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We arranged things too late and everywhere in my town is booked however, we managed to get tickets to NYE in a Casino which will be interesting.
 
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