"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what is everyone doing for NYE ?

Bingo-Player

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so new years eve is upon us

i had originally planned an expensive & boozy weekend away with a friend , but to be honest i feel like i have already spent and drank enough over the festive period so i cancelled it earlier this week

i find NYE to always be stressfull and disappointing in my home town and i know i have left it late to go away now ...but will feel like il be missing out if i dont go out

just wondering what everyone's plans where ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Roober

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crap...

I got my boys and my mom is in town. She made it clear that she will not watch them so I can go out. Even with the "but they are already asleep..."

So it is a movie night with a bottle of champagne, and cider for moms
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Planning on pub with a few mates. Hopefully there will be a few cheekies to chat up.

Nothing too crazy. I like to feel fresh and go out on New Years Day. It's usually quite peaceful and a good time for a bit of reflection.
 

Reykhel

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No party, No fireworks...

Attending a buddhist retreat for the weekend. Meditation and buddhism with the theme being "purification "

Enter 2017 in a positive manner.
 

C00lAF

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Fancy dinner,candles,wine,massage.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigneil

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I'm taking my date out tonight (30th) and we will celebrate New Years at midnight. Tomorrow night she can go party as she just turned 21 and I'm done with that scene, so I didn't even ask for that night. I'll take it easy at the corner pub.

I traditionally like going out on the 30th instead of NYE because it's a quiet night and staff isn't depressed having to work.
 

Who Dares Win

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Will watch a movie and play videogames probably, not worth the hassle to feel like an ant in the overcrowded city where magically everything to eat or drink costs twice the normal cost.

As doublegreatest said holydays mean **** beside closed stores, interrupted services and the fvcking gym closed the necessary days to screw up my program.

The older I get the less tolerant I become when society or culture forces me to feel or do something.

CANT WAIT till all the **** is over and proceed according to my plans.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wifehunter

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Working! (Uber)
 

SmooveMooves

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Reflection. Might go downtown to watch the ball drop. Might drink a lil. Otherwise, I'm already planning how I can improve more this uocoming year.
 

TheGambino

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Going out downtown for a big party with my mate. Booze, dancing, chatting up the ladies and ignoring my plate who turned me down.
 

Young OG

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I'm going to a party with a plate at a big hotel in town. It's supposed to be 3 different rooms with a party in each one. Then the plate is sleeping over.

I kind of wish I wouldn't have agreed to this now, cause a new girl I met wants to spend new years with me and I'm pretty sure she's dtf. Oh well...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Making reservations for this right now. Deciding on a place me and my "boo" are going to go lol
 

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We arranged things too late and everywhere in my town is booked however, we managed to get tickets to NYE in a Casino which will be interesting.
 
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