"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what is everyone doing for NYE ?

Bingo-Player

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so new years eve is upon us

i had originally planned an expensive & boozy weekend away with a friend , but to be honest i feel like i have already spent and drank enough over the festive period so i cancelled it earlier this week

i find NYE to always be stressfull and disappointing in my home town and i know i have left it late to go away now ...but will feel like il be missing out if i dont go out

just wondering what everyone's plans where ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Roober

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crap...

I got my boys and my mom is in town. She made it clear that she will not watch them so I can go out. Even with the "but they are already asleep..."

So it is a movie night with a bottle of champagne, and cider for moms
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Planning on pub with a few mates. Hopefully there will be a few cheekies to chat up.

Nothing too crazy. I like to feel fresh and go out on New Years Day. It's usually quite peaceful and a good time for a bit of reflection.
 

Reykhel

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No party, No fireworks...

Attending a buddhist retreat for the weekend. Meditation and buddhism with the theme being "purification "

Enter 2017 in a positive manner.
 

C00lAF

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Fancy dinner,candles,wine,massage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigneil

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I'm taking my date out tonight (30th) and we will celebrate New Years at midnight. Tomorrow night she can go party as she just turned 21 and I'm done with that scene, so I didn't even ask for that night. I'll take it easy at the corner pub.

I traditionally like going out on the 30th instead of NYE because it's a quiet night and staff isn't depressed having to work.
 

Who Dares Win

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Will watch a movie and play videogames probably, not worth the hassle to feel like an ant in the overcrowded city where magically everything to eat or drink costs twice the normal cost.

As doublegreatest said holydays mean **** beside closed stores, interrupted services and the fvcking gym closed the necessary days to screw up my program.

The older I get the less tolerant I become when society or culture forces me to feel or do something.

CANT WAIT till all the **** is over and proceed according to my plans.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wifehunter

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Working! (Uber)
 

SmooveMooves

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Reflection. Might go downtown to watch the ball drop. Might drink a lil. Otherwise, I'm already planning how I can improve more this uocoming year.
 

TheGambino

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Going out downtown for a big party with my mate. Booze, dancing, chatting up the ladies and ignoring my plate who turned me down.
 

Young OG

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I'm going to a party with a plate at a big hotel in town. It's supposed to be 3 different rooms with a party in each one. Then the plate is sleeping over.

I kind of wish I wouldn't have agreed to this now, cause a new girl I met wants to spend new years with me and I'm pretty sure she's dtf. Oh well...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Making reservations for this right now. Deciding on a place me and my "boo" are going to go lol
 

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We arranged things too late and everywhere in my town is booked however, we managed to get tickets to NYE in a Casino which will be interesting.
 
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