Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Excellent point. Even if you're not using self deprecating humor, you can still come off as a clown using ****y and funny. I think what you are missing is kino. The formula for ****y and funny is more like ****y+funny+kino, that's the ultimate product and something that David D fails to mention.Sir Juanalot said:Are you the man that is funny, or the clown? Theres a distinct difference between the two.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What he said.Jokerlsk said:DONT BE THE CLOWN! Trust me man, I was or still am viewed as the clown. It's hard to shed. So if you can avoid it, I honestly don't know how to get out of it myself. IF your the clown girls only think of you as a friend and someone that can make them feel better when their having a bad day e.g. getting dumped