You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Excellent point. Even if you're not using self deprecating humor, you can still come off as a clown using ****y and funny. I think what you are missing is kino. The formula for ****y and funny is more like ****y+funny+kino, that's the ultimate product and something that David D fails to mention.Sir Juanalot said:Are you the man that is funny, or the clown? Theres a distinct difference between the two.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What he said.Jokerlsk said:DONT BE THE CLOWN! Trust me man, I was or still am viewed as the clown. It's hard to shed. So if you can avoid it, I honestly don't know how to get out of it myself. IF your the clown girls only think of you as a friend and someone that can make them feel better when their having a bad day e.g. getting dumped