I think making sexual jokes/being serious is really bad when you first start to know a girl. I'm trying a new idea of just talking a lot and not giving a **** about what I say on text (plenty of omgs, repetitive lettering), then being very touchy and emotional IRL. I've just started doing tis and chicks seem to respond better. Maybe being cool is just an illusion and it's necessary to act retarded.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What if being sexual is bad?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Yes I joke about sex all the time. ^^^ It is not bad.Stingers said:Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Very touchy, emotional, and no sexy jokes? Just be cautious you might give off vibe of the ever dreaded needy "friend" for girls.
And texts aren't nearly as important as actual interaction
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
How do you develop this confidence?LearningSlowly said:The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
It comes from meditation and experience. It requires a sensitivity to women. A lot of guys believe that sex gives them power over women. A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important. A lot of guys believe that sex is power given by women to men, and they need to collect as much as they can.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
This. Like Nino says, make 'em feel loved.LearningSlowly said:A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important.