I think making sexual jokes/being serious is really bad when you first start to know a girl. I'm trying a new idea of just talking a lot and not giving a **** about what I say on text (plenty of omgs, repetitive lettering), then being very touchy and emotional IRL. I've just started doing tis and chicks seem to respond better. Maybe being cool is just an illusion and it's necessary to act retarded.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What if being sexual is bad?
- Thread starter asianbboy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Yes I joke about sex all the time. ^^^ It is not bad.Stingers said:Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Very touchy, emotional, and no sexy jokes? Just be cautious you might give off vibe of the ever dreaded needy "friend" for girls.
And texts aren't nearly as important as actual interaction
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
How do you develop this confidence?LearningSlowly said:The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
It comes from meditation and experience. It requires a sensitivity to women. A lot of guys believe that sex gives them power over women. A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important. A lot of guys believe that sex is power given by women to men, and they need to collect as much as they can.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
This. Like Nino says, make 'em feel loved.LearningSlowly said:A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important.