I think making sexual jokes/being serious is really bad when you first start to know a girl. I'm trying a new idea of just talking a lot and not giving a **** about what I say on text (plenty of omgs, repetitive lettering), then being very touchy and emotional IRL. I've just started doing tis and chicks seem to respond better. Maybe being cool is just an illusion and it's necessary to act retarded.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What if being sexual is bad?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Yes I joke about sex all the time. ^^^ It is not bad.Stingers said:Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Very touchy, emotional, and no sexy jokes? Just be cautious you might give off vibe of the ever dreaded needy "friend" for girls.
And texts aren't nearly as important as actual interaction
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
How do you develop this confidence?LearningSlowly said:The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
It comes from meditation and experience. It requires a sensitivity to women. A lot of guys believe that sex gives them power over women. A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important. A lot of guys believe that sex is power given by women to men, and they need to collect as much as they can.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
This. Like Nino says, make 'em feel loved.LearningSlowly said:A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important.