I think making sexual jokes/being serious is really bad when you first start to know a girl. I'm trying a new idea of just talking a lot and not giving a **** about what I say on text (plenty of omgs, repetitive lettering), then being very touchy and emotional IRL. I've just started doing tis and chicks seem to respond better. Maybe being cool is just an illusion and it's necessary to act retarded.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What if being sexual is bad?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Yes I joke about sex all the time. ^^^ It is not bad.Stingers said:Retarted no, not giving fvck yes.
Dude being sexual is never bad, how do you think me and you came on this planet?
SEX
only reason girls dont do it is because they dont want to be labeled a "slut" girls love sex bro.
but dont get serious to the point of where the girl thinks your about to rape her.
joke around with her make some jokes about sex just dont let it get to serious if you barely know her.
Very touchy, emotional, and no sexy jokes? Just be cautious you might give off vibe of the ever dreaded needy "friend" for girls.
And texts aren't nearly as important as actual interaction
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
How do you develop this confidence?LearningSlowly said:The sex jokes you make reveal your private beliefs about sex, women, and yourself. If you are confident and secure, it will come through. Insecurity will also come through. Sex jokes should come from a joyful mindset and they will go over well.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
It comes from meditation and experience. It requires a sensitivity to women. A lot of guys believe that sex gives them power over women. A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important. A lot of guys believe that sex is power given by women to men, and they need to collect as much as they can.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
None of those are right. Sooner or later you'll discover mutual benefit and trust, the funny parts of sex, and an acceptance that everyone has their own ideas about sex.
This. Like Nino says, make 'em feel loved.LearningSlowly said:A lot of guys believe that women's enjoyment isn't important.