"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what if a girl ask....
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if its a matter of which you prefer, and you do not know what to say you can always say "lets cross that bridge when we come to it"
Docs
Banned
NM, why are posts being crossed over..there's only need for one topic...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Correct. Or, you can say "depends on the girl."
Evangenlion
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"hookups, all relationships derived from hookups"
better say that, cus then ur telling her that if she is interested in a relationship, she better hookup first, which doesn't nesscary mean it leads to a relationship with her, but its her only chance for a relationship, a small chance lol
Her: Are you into hookups or relationships?
You: Who is this trying to hook up with me? Tell who ever it is I'm not into blind dating and they'll have to speak to me for
themselves if they want to stand a chance.
Normally a woman will become tensed up on what to say to you. If it's her who wants to hook up with you, then chances are she'll stall for about 5 secs or so and come up with something to say. She'll do her best to not give you clues on who likes you....especially if it is she that likes you.