"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what if a girl ask....
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if its a matter of which you prefer, and you do not know what to say you can always say "lets cross that bridge when we come to it"
Docs
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NM, why are posts being crossed over..there's only need for one topic...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Correct. Or, you can say "depends on the girl."
Evangenlion
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"hookups, all relationships derived from hookups"
better say that, cus then ur telling her that if she is interested in a relationship, she better hookup first, which doesn't nesscary mean it leads to a relationship with her, but its her only chance for a relationship, a small chance lol
Her: Are you into hookups or relationships?
You: Who is this trying to hook up with me? Tell who ever it is I'm not into blind dating and they'll have to speak to me for
themselves if they want to stand a chance.
Normally a woman will become tensed up on what to say to you. If it's her who wants to hook up with you, then chances are she'll stall for about 5 secs or so and come up with something to say. She'll do her best to not give you clues on who likes you....especially if it is she that likes you.