"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what if a girl ask....

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what do u say if a girl ask u if ur into hookups or relationships-
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You say: What are you into?
SHe says: hookups or relationships
You say: Well today is your lucky day. HEHE
 

penkitten

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do you mean if she asks you which one you prefer?

if its a matter of which you prefer, and you do not know what to say you can always say "lets cross that bridge when we come to it"
 

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is it just me or are the mods taking out posts...?

NM, why are posts being crossed over..there's only need for one topic...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You say both.
 

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i'd say

"hookups, all relationships derived from hookups"

better say that, cus then ur telling her that if she is interested in a relationship, she better hookup first, which doesn't nesscary mean it leads to a relationship with her, but its her only chance for a relationship, a small chance lol
 

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Say something smooth like.

Her: Are you into hookups or relationships?

You: Who is this trying to hook up with me? Tell who ever it is I'm not into blind dating and they'll have to speak to me for
themselves if they want to stand a chance.


Normally a woman will become tensed up on what to say to you. If it's her who wants to hook up with you, then chances are she'll stall for about 5 secs or so and come up with something to say. She'll do her best to not give you clues on who likes you....especially if it is she that likes you.
 
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