"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
what if a girl ask....
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if its a matter of which you prefer, and you do not know what to say you can always say "lets cross that bridge when we come to it"
Docs
Banned
NM, why are posts being crossed over..there's only need for one topic...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Correct. Or, you can say "depends on the girl."
Evangenlion
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"hookups, all relationships derived from hookups"
better say that, cus then ur telling her that if she is interested in a relationship, she better hookup first, which doesn't nesscary mean it leads to a relationship with her, but its her only chance for a relationship, a small chance lol
Her: Are you into hookups or relationships?
You: Who is this trying to hook up with me? Tell who ever it is I'm not into blind dating and they'll have to speak to me for
themselves if they want to stand a chance.
Normally a woman will become tensed up on what to say to you. If it's her who wants to hook up with you, then chances are she'll stall for about 5 secs or so and come up with something to say. She'll do her best to not give you clues on who likes you....especially if it is she that likes you.