"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if its a matter of which you prefer, and you do not know what to say you can always say "lets cross that bridge when we come to it"
Docs
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NM, why are posts being crossed over..there's only need for one topic...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Correct. Or, you can say "depends on the girl."
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"hookups, all relationships derived from hookups"
better say that, cus then ur telling her that if she is interested in a relationship, she better hookup first, which doesn't nesscary mean it leads to a relationship with her, but its her only chance for a relationship, a small chance lol
Her: Are you into hookups or relationships?
You: Who is this trying to hook up with me? Tell who ever it is I'm not into blind dating and they'll have to speak to me for
themselves if they want to stand a chance.
Normally a woman will become tensed up on what to say to you. If it's her who wants to hook up with you, then chances are she'll stall for about 5 secs or so and come up with something to say. She'll do her best to not give you clues on who likes you....especially if it is she that likes you.