pimpfromdayone
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You need to gain 1000 lbs.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i've been trying, but i hit a plateau every 100 or so... any ideas about why this happens?!Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
You need to gain 1000 lbs.
do you put yourself out there?Originally posted by SuNmAN
I'm 6'4, 185 lbs and have a body of steel.
I've been told by MANY people that I'm ripped. I'd like to think that my face is fairly good looking too...now I wanna know why that guy that started this thread has women all over him and I don't?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i'm 5'9 and 155 lbs and i'm much above average in my upper body, but my legs sùck. depends on how your weight is shared over your body. i'd like to get to 170 or so, but i want to be more than athleticOriginally posted by SinisaD
NoNickName thx for that site I just went on it. It has some good tips. I think as well that am a hard gainer. I have one question am 5'10' and I weigh 165 lbs. Is that alrite weight for me or should I try to gain more weight??????
The type of body am leaning more towards is not just muscular. But more like an athleticaly built muscle guy. I don't want bulky muscles thats just my opinion and preference hehe. All opinions on my question are welcome.
Just wanna say thank you ahead of time for the responses![]()
Originally posted by Jay-X
i'm 5'9 and 155 lbs and i'm much above average in my upper body, but my legs sùck. depends on how your weight is shared over your body. i'd like to get to 170 or so, but i want to be more than athletic
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm 5'6, & I am 65kg & get called a greyhound.Originally posted by Jay-X
i'm wondering, would you consider 65kg skinny for a 5'9 high schooler?
reading this stuff, it seems so, but it's very hard to define me skinny
How is that? You're actually well within the normal weight range for your height (according to the medical charts).Originally posted by Bloke
I'm 5'6, & I am 65kg & get called a greyhound.
If your 3 inches taller than me... yes, that is skinny
now i'm 70kg (still at 5'9) and i don't know anybody who thinks of me as skinny... actually i look bigger than everybody in my classOriginally posted by Bloke
I'm 5'6, & I am 65kg & get called a greyhound.
If your 3 inches taller than me... yes, that is skinny
wouldn't weigh 180 lbs or more make someone shorter than 5'10 seem like a wall of bricks? i mean, if you are 10% or less bodyfat, you would look impressive at the beach, but when you have your clothes on, you would look pretty bad...Originally posted by Alex_L
I'm 180lbs at 5' 9" .. and the bigger I get the more the girls check you out... I'm amazed that everytime I go out now, girls who are 7-8+ (not age! but out of 10 lol) are always checking me out even those with their boyfriends ..I feel like a magnet, that girls are more attracted too me now than they have ever been , i feel great that I could just go up too most girls and that theyed want too go out with me..
I'm so not used too it!
top tip though would be too make sure you work your arms hard... cause i had been working out on and off since i was 16, but i never did my arm just my chest , stomach and back a bit.... so for the past 6 years people have taken me too be "fat" ..but as soon as I put on 3 inches on my arms ..people realise now i'm not fat but i'm infact muscle...as soon as I worked my arms I became literally a babe magnet, i'm not confident in myself though so it's weird lol.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.