Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What every skinny guy should know...

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Is there a post on here like "What every fat guy should know", where they do this in reverse? Like "I lost 10 more pounds, now HB7s are starting to notice me", that kind of thing? :)

Or are skinny guys worse off, and girls will go for a guy if he's a little too beefy?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you are a true male role model. going from 115 pounds to 150 has been life changing and that just fat. i cant wait to build muscle and see what that next big leap is. i was just way too low percent before.
 

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Cheeks said:
I agree that bulking up will increase your confidence, but ultimately it has nothing to do with attraction. Just look at a guy like Tyler Durden (or whatever he calls himself). Dude is around 5'8" and looks 140 lbs maximum. Sinfully ugly too.

I recently put on some mass. I weight train with dumbbells in my apartment. I'm about 5'9 and 160, which is an improvement over my previous 145 lb frame. It is nice to have but I have no illusions that its making me more attractive to women.
Do you know what 140 looks like, really, because he didn't look 140. He was 165-170 in Fight Club.
 

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AmIAFC said:
Do you know what 140 looks like, really, because he didn't look 140. He was 165-170 in Fight Club.
I think he's talking about the guy from RSD.

Getting "big" is overrated. What you do want to do though is get fit with some muscle...not to the level of a bodybuilder. Even then it still won't get you laid on its own.
 

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Yeah I'm talking about the dude from RSD who (laughably) calls himself Tyler Durden.

Brad Pitt in the movie obviously isn't 5'8" and 140
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bump.
Any testimony from skinny guy getting big?
 
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I went from being hs skinny to muscular in college, to fat muscle after college and now I’m an athletic soccer build….skinny is better lol. Plus it’s easier to maintain as you age
 
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