"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What does no chemistry mean?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I started asking my matches what the what they are looking for pre screen. Any girl that spews romantic relationship BS I filter out
 

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It means you dodged a damn bullet. You were good looking enough to get a date, but not toxic or beta enough to please her during a date. I always get this **** from feminists or single sallies chasing whatever dream they will never catch. Don't let future cat ladies(lots of them on hinge) deter you from your success guys :)
"No chemistry" means "thanks for the free meal, sucker!"
 

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You might be an Incel if...

1) your posts frequently mention the terms Alpha, Beta, Simps, Chad, or Tyrone

2) you constantly complain about women

3) you use LOL and LMAO at the end of your posts, as if it signifies to the rest of us that you are high status
I'm beginning to think @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 is beyond hope. He's another one of these newbies I've seen 1000 times before that comes here looking for help, obviously, but then just spews negativity and this whoa is me attitude. When other members try to help him, he gets combative. defensive, and overly sensitive. Reminds me of a few other junior SS members the past few months. I'm done wasting my time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm beginning to think @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 is beyond hope. He's another one of these newbies I've seen 1000 times before that comes here looking for help, obviously, but then just spews negativity and this whoa is me attitude. When other members try to help him, he gets combative. defensive, and overly sensitive. Reminds me of a few other junior SS members the past few months. I'm done wasting my time.
Yep, I'm an incel with 3 girlfriends at the moment because I don't believe in chasing chain smoking single moms with nose rings
 
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