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What does no chemistry mean?

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Velasco

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What if they act like sh1t tho?

We're supposed to turn a blind eye?

We're supposed to look at wannabe Instagram princesses and agree with their nonsense?
you take girls too seriously, mate.
are you serious lmao? So many simps in the closet on this forum
getting girls is simping now.
I mean why are they still single at age 30 though?
cuz they want to have fun. i say let them. your not gonna marry them are you?
 

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I mean why are they still single at age 30 though?
Not just 30. I’ve met many women 35-39 who didn’t have their **** together and were still chasing the tingles. I’ve learned that women’s intuition is a myth, it doesn’t exist. They can’t screen for you any better than you can screen for them. Reason why is they’ll bail on one guy over something trivial but tell you story after story about how their ex’s were broke, abusive, on drugs, had a secret second family, and yet these guys somehow managed to “fool” their radar for months, years even? No, it was all about the tingles and thinking with that hole between their legs as their guide.
 

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you take girls too seriously, mate.

getting girls is simping now.

cuz they want to have fun. i say let them. your not gonna marry them are you?
I would never advocate any guy do drugs or anything that devalues him to obtain temporary pvssy. You are worst than the simps on Only Fans and Twitch imho.
 

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i said what was about him the reason girls be choosing these "broke/abusive/on drugs" guys, robert's complaining about, over "average guy". don't care if guys do drugs or not. Give them what they want (tingles), so that you get what you want.
 

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i said what was about him the reason girls be choosing these "broke/abusive/on drugs" guys, robert's complaining about, over "average guy". don't care if guys do drugs or not. Give them what they want (tingles), so that you get what you want.
I wasn’t complaining, it’s honestly what I’ve been observing over the years and I have many examples to back it up.
 

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It means she isn't feeling it. Most women don't know how 'chemistry' works. It's like @LARaiders85 said. Whatever it is that is important to her when it comes to initial attraction, you don't have. When you first meet a chick you are being evaluated based on your looks, perceived place in society, and perceived wealth. They will never admit this, mostly because many women really don't know this about themselves.

If you don't have some combination of of these traits, at levels she is looking for, you do not have a chance. And the only way she knows you might, is that she is feeling butterflies.

As she dates you, she figures out what your social status is, and what your real wealth is, and if you don't hit the mark of what she needs... well she will move on if another man comes along that does.

DO NOT FIGHT THIS! If a chick tells you there is no chemistry, than just own it and walk away and forget about her. No amount of effort on your part is going to turn this around. I am honestly sick to death of seeing men busting their butts, while emptying their wallets trying to get a chick to change her mind. It's a waste of time because none of this has anything to do with rational decision making.

If a chick is not getting 'butterflies' right from the start, your chance of making anything work for any length of time is low. If you are just looking for casual dating... then you don't have to worry about this. But if the woman is just looking to casually date she isn't even going to bring this up.
It means she isn't feeling it. Most women don't know how 'chemistry' works. It's like @LARaiders85 said. Whatever it is that is important to her when it comes to initial attraction, you don't have. When you first meet a chick you are being evaluated based on your looks, perceived place in society, and perceived wealth. They will never admit this, mostly because many women really don't know this about themselves.

If you don't have some combination of of these traits, at levels she is looking for, you do not have a chance. And the only way she knows you might, is that she is feeling butterflies.

As she dates you, she figures out what your social status is, and what your real wealth is, and if you don't hit the mark of what she needs... well she will move on if another man comes along that does.

DO NOT FIGHT THIS! If a chick tells you there is no chemistry, than just own it and walk away and forget about her. No amount of effort on your part is going to turn this around. I am honestly sick to death of seeing men busting their butts, while emptying their wallets trying to get a chick to change her mind. It's a waste of time because none of this has anything to do with rational decision making.

If a chick is not getting 'butterflies' right from the start, your chance of making anything work for any length of time is low. If you are just looking for casual dating... then you don't have to worry about this. But if the woman is just looking to casually date she isn't even going to bring this up.
You can be the most charismatic guy in the world(mine is pretty good 1 on 1) but if she is not physically attracted to you at all or if she has another guy in her head then she is going to actively sabotage your ability to create chemistry on a date. I have also had women that I have great chemistry with sabotage the pre-existing chemistry because they met some other guy that they like more.

On the flip side I have had women with the personality of a damp rag claim that I had the greatest chemistry with them. I have also had pretty poor performances on my end turned into great results because the woman took the initiative to create the chemistry.
 

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She perceives herself as higher value, or is higher value. No chemistry is like I have a boyfriend.
Another one of many excuses used for not being interested.
 
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You can be the most charismatic guy in the world(mine is pretty good 1 on 1) but if she is not physically attracted to you at all or if she has another guy in her head then she is going to actively sabotage your ability to create chemistry on a date. I have also had women that I have great chemistry with sabotage the pre-existing chemistry because they met some other guy that they like more.

On the flip side I have had women with the personality of a damp rag claim that I had the greatest chemistry with them. I have also had pretty poor performances on my end turned into great results because the woman took the initiative to create the chemistry.
true words

if a woman finds someone better than you , or thinks for some reason that she can not have you then she will auto sabotage the chemistry and try to pick up fights from stupid things

on the other hand , if she likes you enough , she will channelized the chemistry even more
 

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ya i believe you

you should aspire to be an exciting guy who gives girls tingles. look beyond the surface level lol.
How are you going to build value when you are too busy trying to be Tupac with a degree to give girls on Tinder the tingles? Not all of us can be NBA/Successful rappers lol.
 

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You can be the most charismatic guy in the world(mine is pretty good 1 on 1) but if she is not physically attracted to you at all or if she has another guy in her head then she is going to actively sabotage your ability to create chemistry on a date. I have also had women that I have great chemistry with sabotage the pre-existing chemistry because they met some other guy that they like more.

On the flip side I have had women with the personality of a damp rag claim that I had the greatest chemistry with them. I have also had pretty poor performances on my end turned into great results because the woman took the initiative to create the chemistry.
What about on a dating app where they agree to meet up with you because there's physical attraction?
 

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man , you are the Godzilla of trolls
Or you can answer lol. You want a man to put in 1-3 hours developing himself, and 9-10 on making money, and then have the energy to put up a Tupac/Jason Bourne clown show for a delusional spoiled narcissist princess on Bumble to make her tingle on a first date? The only guys that have time to put with this **** are bums, drug dealers, trust fund babies, and professional athletes.
 

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It’s just means no attraction.

Remember, women cannot afford to be honest and love living in the grey zone. They do this for 2 reasons. One, its a power trip. If the man is in any sense desperate, she gets off on seeing how desperate he is. Two, it makes her look good. A woman cannot say “he wasn't tall enough. He wasn’t handsome enough. He didn’t make enough money.” Society doesn’t like that. Yet if she says “no chemistry”, well, you can’t force love, so she gets out of it while looking decent.

Don't take anything a woman says personally. It’s all designed for HER benefit.

Come on men.
 
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