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What does it mean when a chick friend asks you

DJnoob

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So she saw this chick who will be working with us soon. Then she asks me "Do you think she's pretty"?


What does it normally mean when chicks ask yuo about how pretty other chicks are?

Thanks.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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All I can say is two things, one is that from my personal experience of asking women that, I was unsure of myself and some other woman said said that guy was hot. I wanted to check and see if it was a universal thing so that I can figure out why.

Two, is a girl asked me that one time about another girl that wasn't very pretty physically, but damn... she was sexy. I said no, but she was attractive, and she said that she walkes around school all the time acting like every guy wants her. In that case she may have been experiencing the same thing I experienced in the first situation.
 

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Originally posted by sapphire
It means that the other chick digs you.:)
actually that was going to be my third thing, the other girl likes you and is possibly having this girl ask you if you like her, or not having her ask you but the other girl takes it into her own hands. That has actually happend to me in the past... but it's been a very very long time... Most more mature women wouldn't go through this, I think.
 
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This means that your girl thinks that this girl is pretty and that you were observing this girl because men are naturally inclined to observe "pretty" women - it is the natural order of things!!

She is (Women are) threatened by other women that she (they) sees as above her on the beauty scale - because she (they) knows that the "beauty" of the woman is the main determinant (attraction) for which the male is motivated to pursue his prey!!!
 

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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So, it doesnt mean they necesarily like you right? And how did you guys respond to this when she popped you that question?
 

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Originally posted by DJnoob
So, it doesnt mean they necesarily like you right? And how did you guys respond to this when she popped you that question?
ok, something else just popped to mind right now. when girls asked me that in the past, I thought, maybe she likes me and wanted to know what I think about her. Like, where are my standards are at, which is right in line with what PuertoRican_Lover said.
 

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Wait, she isnt my gf. Just a co worker. So.....?

How exactly did you respond to that? Did you tell her, "oh she's pretty, or whatever blah blah blah"
 

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I usually use one of two responses

1) I just look around saying "what other chick? Which one?" over and over again until the girl dissappeares from sight so you never have to answer.

2) I say, "Well, yes and no. Would society find her pretty? [take a pause as if considering it], yeah. I guess some might. Is she pretty enough to get with me? No."

Alexi
 

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I think it means she is jealous of that girl or is wondering why guys like her.
 

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Fatality
I think it means she is jealous of that girl or is wondering why guys like her.
Yep, I place my money on Fatality's interpretation. Women are inordinately jealous of other women whom they feel are prettier than they are. Kitty Kats kompete.
 
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