You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.backbreaker said:
well i love her personality, and i have a thing for leggy petite short haired womencordoncordon said:See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
exactlythedude4242 said:I look at it like this. if you have a women that you cannot pick out anything wrong with her you got something good. I dont mean perfect, but when she is in a swimsuit or your having sex with her and there is nothing that you dont want to not look at then you are fine.
there are a lot of women who really dont have any flaws in there appearance its just that they dont have that strong sexual porno star type look.
I am picky and I have found a nice amount of women who I couldnt even be picky with anything really.
She's a solid 7 but not a 8.cordoncordon said:Btw here are a few pics of my gf that you can use for reference. Guys with gf's feel free to post yours! Have fun jacking off!
PS: I'm white.
http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/2558/rose2n.jpg
http://img246.imageshack.us/img246/7456/rose5552.jpg
http://img169.imageshack.us/img169/2139/rose1c.jpg
That's fine...have no problem with that, though I bet 99% of most men would disagree with you. Now show who you are dating.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"BigJimbo said:I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UhbAvIaysU
Basically, the same exact thing. This must be porn for some of you guys.
What? You don't need "Internet Validation"? Post a pic of her.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
Actually she has no accent at all. She moved here when she was 5 from Taiwan and has the most American, girly, sexy voice you can possibly imagine.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.Bluntmaster said:Good for you. Look at my new girlfriend:
http://img146.imageshack.us/f/2222222q.jpg/
Mine is hotter.
cordoncordon said:Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.
Not bad, and for sure a marked improvement over what you have dated in the past, but not even close to mine.![]()
Haha, that asian geek boy has been around for 10 years on the net. Goes around and takes pics with girls and pretends that is him "picking them up". IF that is who you use as a role model and comrade in arms, you really are just a geek boy too aren't you? Wow.BigJimbo said:http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage.htm
Eh, more of what he gets. Of course something like this won't turn on the boys and middle class bums in America. Nope. They are stuck. Some of us laugh at them from afar.
Eh...some of them are pretty. Most are 5's and 6's. Pure Asian women in Taiwan, Thailand, Japan, etc are much more beautiful imo if you want to compare Asians specifically.BigJimbo said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abPit0-noG0&feature=related
Beating any "Asian" looking broad I ever saw in America. These are Kazakhs. Plus, they are Muslims. Not hardcore, but still Muslim enough that most are not total tramps. Over a million of them in Moscow.
I wonder if she's with cordon just for the green card like a lot of asian girls use white guys forBluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.