Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.backbreaker said:
well i love her personality, and i have a thing for leggy petite short haired womencordoncordon said:See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
exactlythedude4242 said:I look at it like this. if you have a women that you cannot pick out anything wrong with her you got something good. I dont mean perfect, but when she is in a swimsuit or your having sex with her and there is nothing that you dont want to not look at then you are fine.
there are a lot of women who really dont have any flaws in there appearance its just that they dont have that strong sexual porno star type look.
I am picky and I have found a nice amount of women who I couldnt even be picky with anything really.
She's a solid 7 but not a 8.cordoncordon said:Btw here are a few pics of my gf that you can use for reference. Guys with gf's feel free to post yours! Have fun jacking off!
PS: I'm white.
http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/2558/rose2n.jpg
http://img246.imageshack.us/img246/7456/rose5552.jpg
http://img169.imageshack.us/img169/2139/rose1c.jpg
That's fine...have no problem with that, though I bet 99% of most men would disagree with you. Now show who you are dating.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"BigJimbo said:I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UhbAvIaysU
Basically, the same exact thing. This must be porn for some of you guys.
What? You don't need "Internet Validation"? Post a pic of her.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
Actually she has no accent at all. She moved here when she was 5 from Taiwan and has the most American, girly, sexy voice you can possibly imagine.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.Bluntmaster said:Good for you. Look at my new girlfriend:
http://img146.imageshack.us/f/2222222q.jpg/
Mine is hotter.
cordoncordon said:Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.
Not bad, and for sure a marked improvement over what you have dated in the past, but not even close to mine.![]()
Haha, that asian geek boy has been around for 10 years on the net. Goes around and takes pics with girls and pretends that is him "picking them up". IF that is who you use as a role model and comrade in arms, you really are just a geek boy too aren't you? Wow.BigJimbo said:http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage.htm
Eh, more of what he gets. Of course something like this won't turn on the boys and middle class bums in America. Nope. They are stuck. Some of us laugh at them from afar.
Eh...some of them are pretty. Most are 5's and 6's. Pure Asian women in Taiwan, Thailand, Japan, etc are much more beautiful imo if you want to compare Asians specifically.BigJimbo said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abPit0-noG0&feature=related
Beating any "Asian" looking broad I ever saw in America. These are Kazakhs. Plus, they are Muslims. Not hardcore, but still Muslim enough that most are not total tramps. Over a million of them in Moscow.
I wonder if she's with cordon just for the green card like a lot of asian girls use white guys forBluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.