She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.backbreaker said:
well i love her personality, and i have a thing for leggy petite short haired womencordoncordon said:See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
exactlythedude4242 said:I look at it like this. if you have a women that you cannot pick out anything wrong with her you got something good. I dont mean perfect, but when she is in a swimsuit or your having sex with her and there is nothing that you dont want to not look at then you are fine.
there are a lot of women who really dont have any flaws in there appearance its just that they dont have that strong sexual porno star type look.
I am picky and I have found a nice amount of women who I couldnt even be picky with anything really.
She's a solid 7 but not a 8.cordoncordon said:Btw here are a few pics of my gf that you can use for reference. Guys with gf's feel free to post yours! Have fun jacking off!
PS: I'm white.
http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/2558/rose2n.jpg
http://img246.imageshack.us/img246/7456/rose5552.jpg
http://img169.imageshack.us/img169/2139/rose1c.jpg
That's fine...have no problem with that, though I bet 99% of most men would disagree with you. Now show who you are dating.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"BigJimbo said:I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UhbAvIaysU
Basically, the same exact thing. This must be porn for some of you guys.
What? You don't need "Internet Validation"? Post a pic of her.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
Actually she has no accent at all. She moved here when she was 5 from Taiwan and has the most American, girly, sexy voice you can possibly imagine.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.Bluntmaster said:Good for you. Look at my new girlfriend:
http://img146.imageshack.us/f/2222222q.jpg/
Mine is hotter.
cordoncordon said:Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.
Not bad, and for sure a marked improvement over what you have dated in the past, but not even close to mine.![]()
Haha, that asian geek boy has been around for 10 years on the net. Goes around and takes pics with girls and pretends that is him "picking them up". IF that is who you use as a role model and comrade in arms, you really are just a geek boy too aren't you? Wow.BigJimbo said:http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage.htm
Eh, more of what he gets. Of course something like this won't turn on the boys and middle class bums in America. Nope. They are stuck. Some of us laugh at them from afar.
Eh...some of them are pretty. Most are 5's and 6's. Pure Asian women in Taiwan, Thailand, Japan, etc are much more beautiful imo if you want to compare Asians specifically.BigJimbo said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abPit0-noG0&feature=related
Beating any "Asian" looking broad I ever saw in America. These are Kazakhs. Plus, they are Muslims. Not hardcore, but still Muslim enough that most are not total tramps. Over a million of them in Moscow.
I wonder if she's with cordon just for the green card like a lot of asian girls use white guys forBluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.