She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.backbreaker said:
well i love her personality, and i have a thing for leggy petite short haired womencordoncordon said:See that goes to show you the difference in people's tastes. To me that girl is no more than a 5 to a 6.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
exactlythedude4242 said:I look at it like this. if you have a women that you cannot pick out anything wrong with her you got something good. I dont mean perfect, but when she is in a swimsuit or your having sex with her and there is nothing that you dont want to not look at then you are fine.
there are a lot of women who really dont have any flaws in there appearance its just that they dont have that strong sexual porno star type look.
I am picky and I have found a nice amount of women who I couldnt even be picky with anything really.
She's a solid 7 but not a 8.cordoncordon said:Btw here are a few pics of my gf that you can use for reference. Guys with gf's feel free to post yours! Have fun jacking off!
PS: I'm white.
http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/2558/rose2n.jpg
http://img246.imageshack.us/img246/7456/rose5552.jpg
http://img169.imageshack.us/img169/2139/rose1c.jpg
That's fine...have no problem with that, though I bet 99% of most men would disagree with you. Now show who you are dating.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.f283000 said:She's a solid 7 but not a 8.
I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"BigJimbo said:I say 5.5 tops. "Two Dollah! I say Two Dollah! GI get boom-boom for two dollah!" Sorry, guys. Just had a flashback from 'Nam.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UhbAvIaysU
Basically, the same exact thing. This must be porn for some of you guys.
What? You don't need "Internet Validation"? Post a pic of her.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
Actually she has no accent at all. She moved here when she was 5 from Taiwan and has the most American, girly, sexy voice you can possibly imagine.Bluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
I just bagged myself a hot latina girlfriend. I'm not posting her pic though.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.Bluntmaster said:Good for you. Look at my new girlfriend:
http://img146.imageshack.us/f/2222222q.jpg/
Mine is hotter.
cordoncordon said:Cough cough....Bullsh1t...cough cough.
Not bad, and for sure a marked improvement over what you have dated in the past, but not even close to mine.![]()
Haha, that asian geek boy has been around for 10 years on the net. Goes around and takes pics with girls and pretends that is him "picking them up". IF that is who you use as a role model and comrade in arms, you really are just a geek boy too aren't you? Wow.BigJimbo said:http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage.htm
Eh, more of what he gets. Of course something like this won't turn on the boys and middle class bums in America. Nope. They are stuck. Some of us laugh at them from afar.
Eh...some of them are pretty. Most are 5's and 6's. Pure Asian women in Taiwan, Thailand, Japan, etc are much more beautiful imo if you want to compare Asians specifically.BigJimbo said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abPit0-noG0&feature=related
Beating any "Asian" looking broad I ever saw in America. These are Kazakhs. Plus, they are Muslims. Not hardcore, but still Muslim enough that most are not total tramps. Over a million of them in Moscow.
I wonder if she's with cordon just for the green card like a lot of asian girls use white guys forBluntmaster said:I wonder if she tells cordon "me luv u long time"
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.