what does a girl mean when she says this

[lamobatsman]

I like that you are good looking, nice and different to all the other guys i have met. And i like that you want to get to know me and are interested in me

 

[Interceptor]

It means that you are overthinking things.
It means that she "likes that you are good looking, nice and different to all the other guys she has met. And she likes that you want to get to know her and are interested in her".

 

[Interceptor]

Your question should be what do I do next?

This is the courtship stage and men must be familiar with it.

 

[Mike32ct]

= "The good looking guys I've known and/or F-ed in the past were self-centered selfish douchbag p r icks. You're good looking AND want to get to know me rather than F and dump me. It's new and refreshing."

 

[DonGorgon]

I like that you are good looking, nice and different to all the other guys i have met. And i like that you want to get to know me and are interested in me

means you have the green light to F her but you are talking too much and being too nice and moving too slow

 

[lamobatsman]

your opinions are great but i just want to know if women lie because this girl who said this then goes and does the opposite.

 

[BadNews]

It means she likes you..and wants to fvck you. But she doesn't want to feel like a slut about it; like she did when the other guys fvcking her never called again.

Basically she's saying "I want you to fvck me, but I like you, so please call me the next day."

 

[floydb25]

= "The good looking guys I've known and/or F-ed in the past were self-centered selfish douchbag p r icks. You're good looking AND want to get to know me rather than F and dump me. It's new and refreshing."

Ahhh... But thats what she SAYS - doesnt necessarily mean its what she wants, or responds to. People generally go after what is familiar, as well.

I've dealt with a lot of these *******-loving girls, and was the good-looking nice guy they claimed to "love". Didnt get me far... Despite being super infatuated in the beginning. ALWAYS in the beginning... You're the best thing ever, and so different. Watch out for her coming on too strong, as thats a sign of being crazy and obsessive.

I wouldnt sweat it, though. You never know whats going on with women. Just follow her actions and interest level.

IME, these girls were always most interested when I wasnt all that nice, and even a complete jerkface. But they still thought I was nice for some reason. Trying to dig deep, and getting caught up in the challenge. A lot of double speaking and contradictions between what they said vs responded to, and the kind of people they were. Literally at the same time. Saying they liked me as the nice guy - only to pursue harder when I was a ****wad, and losing interest when I remained nice. :crazy: :crazy:

****ing crazy ****... I find its best to remain guarded, not believe or assume ****, pay attention, and focus on what works. Everything else is just unnecessary mind-****ing bull****. Plus, women go by how they feel at any given time. That **** changes constantly. Youre so awesome and nice today, but boring and predictable tomorrow. Dont even follow their words - as they are based on emotion. Otherwise expect to be confused and mind-****ed constantly. Dont let their emotions run the show, or adjust yourself based on what they say. *****es can never make up their minds, and can lose interest at any time.

Finally, girls with a history of dating *******s are usually crazy, troubled and have issues. Theyre not as innocent as you think. But you will see. Oh, yes... You will see. Muhahahaha. :nono:

Dude below: Nothing. We're just sharing experiences, giving possibilities, warnings, etc. No one "knows" for sure. And **** changes with women so much... Who the hell ever knows, anyway?

 

[omega05]

What did she do that was opposite of what she said? Where is the background info in this thread? Where is the context of what she said. Are we in her head?

 

[Igetit!]

I like that you are good looking, nice and different to all the other guys i have met. And i like that you want to get to know me and are interested in me

Personally....I think that's her way of thanking you for the ego boost.


SoSuave666 may have a point about the LJBF thing.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I like that you are good looking, nice and different to all the other guys i have met. And i like that you want to get to know me and are interested in me

You mean when women talk to you... you actually find yourself..... listening????

Interesting.

 

[Trump]

I like that you are good looking, nice and different to all the other guys i have met. And i like that you want to get to know me and are interested in me

I don't like it, she's protecting herself. If you want to have sex with her down the road she can say "whoa whoa, you are not supposed to want sex from me for 6 months. I told you you were nice and different from the rest, you can't act like a jerk now and want sex from me now."

I'd rather she tell your friend you are no nonsense type of guy who won't mess around and gets things done.

 

[( . )( . )]

what does a girl mean when she says this....

Before you've banged her? It's white noise.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Sorry Op but I have to join the red flag team in this thread, my gut tells me that there is something wrong in that line altought cant tell exactly what.

I believe that when girls vocalize compliments or invitations so directly is very likely to be a trap/manipulation, all girls which gave me green light for some banging never talked about how good I am or else, in fact the opposite while laughting.

When a girl tells you how good you are (not goodlooking but good in term of behaviour and character) is never a good sign, it says that she is not used to that and as the guys pointed being her unused to it,means that she is usually banged from a$$holes which of course you dont belong to.

So if you dont belong to the cathegory which is banging her, guess to which cathegory u do belong? well the one which does not.

So medic suggestion is make a move and take action so you will have your answer, the benchmark of her interest is the rapidity of the sexual escalation not her words.

I would like to add the fact that girls which are usually pumped and dumped for some senseless mental mechanism consider guys who treat them good as inferior and unworth of respect..dont ask me why but its like that....its something like she is the the b1tch while dealing with the bad boy while the b1tch becomes the nice guy when he is dealing with her.

You see this dynamic on married couples where the good husband which pays the bill and live for her is her b1tch while the bad boy who banged before him got the best out of her while giving the least.

 

[floydb25]

I don't like it, she's protecting herself. If you want to have sex with her down the road she can say "whoa whoa, you are not supposed to want sex from me for 6 months. I told you you were nice and different from the rest, you can't act like a jerk now and want sex from me now."

I'd rather she tell your friend you are no nonsense type of guy who won't mess around and gets things done.

Ha ha ha... This actually happened before. People generally view you as you're perceived. And a lot of girls arent interested if you arent exciting and sexual off the bat. Once their minds are made up about you - you are treated and categorized accordingly. For decent guys, this is no good. "Yeah, you're so awesome, attentive, interested, and pleasant on the eyes, but you dont turn me on"... That sort of thing. And it doesnt always come right away... LJBF, that is.

This is why I always say, you gotta kill it early on. Initial impressions are huge, and its better to be hot and exciting, IME.

Though, there are some girls who DO find decent guys attractive, and want to have their babies, and whatever.

Most of these *******-loving girls are all about the excitement, drama, and uncertainty - even though all they do is complain about the same thing they seek after. Remember: THEY sought after, and chose them. They werent lured or forced into ****, contrary to their victimization claims.

I'd at least be wary, and not act TOO decent or asexual. Certainly dont AVOID their sexual advances, like my dumb ass used to do. You want to be good + exciting + sexual.

I also agree with Who Dares. Context is everything. Its better for them to say this AS theyre flirting, being sexual, etc. Or not even saying it at all, and talking sexual / being in high pursuit mode. Not the greatest to just hear this as is, with no underlying innuendo's, IMO. Its better to hear, "you're hot" then having them get sexual from there - as opposed to "good looking, nice, different". Not really a romantic compliment.

I've also found that them knowing you are interested is NOT a good thing - though they wont hesitate to string you along. Double-time for low self-esteem *******-lovers.

But I wouldnt jump to conclusions, as you never really know - and shouldnt assume.

 

[Atom Smasher]

She simply verbalized what most women feel... She's turned on by the fact that you like her.

It means nothing. Just act and see where it goes. There is nothing to analyze here as there's not enough data. Force her hand and play it out.

 

[nismo-4]

Judge nismo is currently on vacation but I will tell you that this is nothing more than a way for the girl to get you into a relationship first before sex. If you refuse, you will be friendzoned. Why didn't you go for the lay earlier. You missed your chance buddy. As evidenced by the girl calling you nice. Nice guys finish last. My ruling.

Case closed. Time to play bejeweled 2 again.

 

[Igetit!]

Well it'd probably help if you'd put her remark in context,like maybe tell us what you said to her that caused her to respond with this. I still think it's all ego based though,I mean all she talked about was herself......me,me,me.


She said....

I like that you are good looking, nice and different to all the other guys I have met.

That's patronizing. Kinda like when you ask a girl out and she says "I'm flattered",but then goes on to tell you why she can't go out with you.


She went on to say.....

And i like that you want to get to know me and are interested in me

Basically she said.....

You wanna get to know me? I like that.
You're interested in me? I like that.


Everything she said she liked had to do with you showing interest in HER....


When you told her you were interested in her,she NEVER SAID she was interested back. When you told her you wanted to get to know her,she NEVER SAID she wanted to get to know you back,she just said she "liked" what you were saying to her.


Since "she liked" all those things,did she ever mention or bring up you two possibly getting together sometime?


I just had a date last night. Took the girl out and bowled 2 games. At times,I wasn't sure if she was into me or not. I kissed her at the end of the date,but even then...I wasn't sure. When I got home,she started texting me telling me she was surprised that I DIDN'T try to grab her boobs cause they were right there in my face.

She told me that SHE WANTED to "grope me",but that she held back. She also said that she'd be willing to go back out again...THAT SAME NIGHT so we could do those things. Mind you..it's COLD down here in Texas right now,even got ice and snow on the ground.


So now,what do you think...you think this girl likes me?


I don't think the girl in your situation likes YOU,I think she likes THE FACT that you LIKE HER. You kinda made some mistakes. Instead of TELLING HER you were interested in her and wanted to get to know her,you should have SHOWN IT by asking her out.


Then her response to you asking her out would have let you known where you stand.

 

[DonJuanabe]

Who knows? If she is interested in spending time with you make a move to kiss her. If she reciprocates then your next move is to bed her. You'll have all your answers at that point. Stop wondering, stop worrying, take action and either continue forward or move on.

 

[penkitten]

i am glad to see interceptor back!