"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cola

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She is standing adjacent to you. You see her. You walk up to her, look her dead in her eyes and say
"You know what I want" while handing her your phone

Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FairShake

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I think that line plus handing her the phone is pretty good. Very confident and direct. Make sure you do it with a bit of a smirk on your face. It's good to offset such a bold move with a little humor and playfulness. But open her first and converse a little. Unless you are great looking your approach will not work on it's own.
 

TheWolfMan

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That's pretty good, but the one that I use and have had success with is you walk up to her, hold out your phone and then go "Put your number in here before I don't want it anymore."
 

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I don't see the point.. Nothing will come from those numbers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VladPatton

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I can't help but think the majority of girls will just look at you with a big FU expression on their face while you stand there with your cell in your hand. But hey you can try and see how it goes.
 

RedZone

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I think it's probably better to build some comfort at first...this way you have a better shot at the number.
 

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It's best to approach men with this at first and gradually build up to the ladies.
 

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Is your phone worth any money?
Personally I think some women may reply, "Did you want me to do this?" and then hurl your mobile across the dancefloor/street.

But maybe I'm just being a tad negative about this.
Give it a go and let us know how many numbers you get/how strong the gorilla glass is on a new iphone ;)
 

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cola said:
... "You know what I want" ...
=I want to get into your pants.


If she is OK with her, then she will gladly feed her number, if she is not, have some money in spare to buy a new phone :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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