"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cola

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She is standing adjacent to you. You see her. You walk up to her, look her dead in her eyes and say
"You know what I want" while handing her your phone

Thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FairShake

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I think that line plus handing her the phone is pretty good. Very confident and direct. Make sure you do it with a bit of a smirk on your face. It's good to offset such a bold move with a little humor and playfulness. But open her first and converse a little. Unless you are great looking your approach will not work on it's own.
 

TheWolfMan

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That's pretty good, but the one that I use and have had success with is you walk up to her, hold out your phone and then go "Put your number in here before I don't want it anymore."
 

SamTheHobit

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I don't see the point.. Nothing will come from those numbers.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VladPatton

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I can't help but think the majority of girls will just look at you with a big FU expression on their face while you stand there with your cell in your hand. But hey you can try and see how it goes.
 

RedZone

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I think it's probably better to build some comfort at first...this way you have a better shot at the number.
 

Atom Smasher

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It's best to approach men with this at first and gradually build up to the ladies.
 

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Is your phone worth any money?
Personally I think some women may reply, "Did you want me to do this?" and then hurl your mobile across the dancefloor/street.

But maybe I'm just being a tad negative about this.
Give it a go and let us know how many numbers you get/how strong the gorilla glass is on a new iphone ;)
 

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cola said:
... "You know what I want" ...
=I want to get into your pants.


If she is OK with her, then she will gladly feed her number, if she is not, have some money in spare to buy a new phone :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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