You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Defiantly agree with that though.kingsam said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xn_oqEOtLYU
this is Ross Jefferies right?
NOT COOL
i vaugely recal ross in The Game, seemed whack all his "attracting women by arm movement and touching crap ..."
picking up dumb women by cold reading is not the way to do it - become a better man first ... then be Naturally attractive with a strong personality ...etc...
edit
another link
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0UCLnt1RCY&feature=related
look at the girls face at 4.02 stare of "what a feak" !
who was in the videos i linkedCrissco said:
It is Ross Jeffries.... and he defintely was doing hypnosis techniques on her (i picked up on 2 of them.) I think his stuff would work if someone dedicated themselves to it (you can't half@ss NLP/Hypnosis and expect it to work). But - really.... who wants to do all that to get women?kingsam said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.