That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Defiantly agree with that though.kingsam said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xn_oqEOtLYU
this is Ross Jefferies right?
NOT COOL
i vaugely recal ross in The Game, seemed whack all his "attracting women by arm movement and touching crap ..."
picking up dumb women by cold reading is not the way to do it - become a better man first ... then be Naturally attractive with a strong personality ...etc...
edit
another link
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0UCLnt1RCY&feature=related
look at the girls face at 4.02 stare of "what a feak" !
who was in the videos i linkedCrissco said:
It is Ross Jeffries.... and he defintely was doing hypnosis techniques on her (i picked up on 2 of them.) I think his stuff would work if someone dedicated themselves to it (you can't half@ss NLP/Hypnosis and expect it to work). But - really.... who wants to do all that to get women?kingsam said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.