You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Defiantly agree with that though.kingsam said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xn_oqEOtLYU
this is Ross Jefferies right?
NOT COOL
i vaugely recal ross in The Game, seemed whack all his "attracting women by arm movement and touching crap ..."
picking up dumb women by cold reading is not the way to do it - become a better man first ... then be Naturally attractive with a strong personality ...etc...
edit
another link
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0UCLnt1RCY&feature=related
look at the girls face at 4.02 stare of "what a feak" !
who was in the videos i linkedCrissco said:
It is Ross Jeffries.... and he defintely was doing hypnosis techniques on her (i picked up on 2 of them.) I think his stuff would work if someone dedicated themselves to it (you can't half@ss NLP/Hypnosis and expect it to work). But - really.... who wants to do all that to get women?kingsam said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.