"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what do you think of david DeAngelo

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i think his stuff has some valid points especially about what he describes as "natural compass" but he tries way to hard to sell his book and it pisses me off trying to pick valid stuff through his ads
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Heaven forbid that he tries to make money off of putting together a bunch of information into a concise format that's easily digested. People should do work for others without any expectation of getting paid.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Heaven forbid that he tries to make money off of putting together a bunch of information into a concise format that's easily digested. People should do work for others without any expectation of getting paid.
Haha. I agree with Francisco d'Anconia. Just wait 'till all the "entitled" people wake up from their partying, and start bashing him and turn it into the typical David Deangelo thread, which, hell695, you could have searched for, btw.
 

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There are about 100 of these threads.
Use the "Search" feature next time. ;)
 

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I think some of his stuff for inner game is good, its just that he doesn't go into the Comfort Stage much...which is the biggest flaw of his material. Other methods that talk about that stage imo are better. ****y and Funny can only get u so far. Still got to have a vibing conversation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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David Deangelo is top notch. He has great products.
 

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I have to disagree. He has great products, but i think he just got guys into the game. There is better stuff out there. I can mention some.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
I think some of his stuff for inner game is good, its just that he doesn't go into the Comfort Stage much...which is the biggest flaw of his material. Other methods that talk about that stage imo are better. ****y and Funny can only get u so far. Still got to have a vibing conversation.

What material/who would you guys recommend that best covers going through the comfort stage?
 

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Badboy's Ebook
Mystery Method(Altho im not fond of his style)
Juggler's How to be a pickup artist
Gunwitch's Dynamic Sex Life
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Badboy's Ebook
Mystery Method(Altho im not fond of his style)
Juggler's How to be a pickup artist
Gunwitch's Dynamic Sex Life
What the hell does Gunwitch say about a "comfort" stage?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gunwitch aleady assumes comfort by default, so theres no stage
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJVladdy said:
Gunwitch aleady assumes comfort by default, so theres no stage
I don't know; but I guess that's one way of looking at it.
 

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I like DeAngelo because he teaches a good mindset, and a few of his videos are very helpful, mainly body language.
 

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I need a chapter on pillow talk and how to kick women out of my place when we're finished.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh yeah without Deangelo I wouldn't be half the man I am today.
 
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